Monday, February 23, 2009

Community

Do you know your neighbors by name? Do you participate in the community?

I'm just curious about how common it is to actually know your neighbors, know what they do for a living, say hello, etc.

When we lived in the city, I think we knew too much about our neighbors. Some were great (waves to Kelli!!), and some were awful.

I suppose there are neighbors, and then there are neighbors. You know, some are neighbors that say hello, visit, swap recipes, etc. And then there are neighbors that are really just people that happen to live in the same area.

We tend to think of ourselves as loners out here in the country. We keep to ourselves, mind our own business, and basically don't bother anyone. But, when I stop to think about it, we are a bigger part of our community than we had planned to be: we know our next door neighbors by name; Big Sis volunteered at our local library; Little Sis participates in a local 4H group; we pick up trash along our street, participate in some community events...that sort of thing.

The subject of community has come up a lot recently, in various articles/books that I have been reading. Building a community in case of emergencies was suggested in one article about preparedness. I'm curious about how that is supposed to work.

So, give me your views on community: pros and cons, experiences, etc.

3 comments:

limpingalong said...

I do know my neighbors -- down two houses in one direction, down 3 in the other direction, and two across the street. I live in a subdivision so we are all close together. We have neighbors from different countries and different ethnic groups.
We visit with each other on a casual basis, (out in the yard) the young woman on the corner brings me mending because I sew and she doesn't. Her children climb my tree. I leave a lower branch for them to use when getting down.
Next door mows my lawn when I get behind, and I mow next door in the other direction when I get tired of it being long -- they are teachers and don't have a lot of free time!
I volunteer as an ESL teacher at the library -- what fun! All my students live withint a mile of the library so they are neighbors, also. I love being a part of this community!

Country Wife said...

Your neighborhood sounds idyllic!

The nearby village (less than three miles from here) is similar to what you describe. It's a lovely community, and a great place to visit and do business. I'm too much of a hermit to want to live there, though. :)

limpingalong said...

Sometimes I dream of a more country, secluded life. My husband, however, tells me I like to be around people too much and that I would get bored. I don't know, haven't had the opportunity to try it.